What to do
A practical checklist
Meet in a public place where other people are present and leaving is easy.
Arrange your own transportation when practical and avoid becoming dependent on a new date for the ride home.
Tell a trusted person where you are going and when you expect to check in.
Keep control of your phone, identification, money and drinks.
Do not let urgency, guilt or pressure override a boundary you already set.
Why this matters
A first meeting is still an information-gathering stage. The safest setup keeps it easy to arrive independently, leave independently, change your mind and ask for help if needed. You do not need to assume the worst about someone to preserve those options.
What to do next
If a situation feels wrong, you do not need a courtroom-level explanation before leaving. For immediate danger, use local emergency services. Platform reporting tools can be useful after you are safe.
Useful primary resources
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